Gift
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Supplementing the context before and after
When I listen to rooms related to Media art that I joined as a hobby on Clubhouse and the like, I sometimes think that there are things that were not meant to be a business as I have a vision of correcting selection disparities and as a concrete method. Although it ultimately boils down to "Isn't it enough to break through there?" because there is a concept like Top of top, if there are universal topics (mathematics, CS, behavioral economics, etc.), people can have a common context. In that sense, spending time with friends and lovers who can respect each other even though they have different topics is really fun. It feels like a Gift. I think that projecting the "world line where the other self has obtained" onto others sometimes leads to unhealthy consumption. However, I think it becomes healthy when it is perceived as a "Gift".
Preventing parents from imposing things that they could not achieve on their children, or projecting them onto lovers and friends, is a philosophy and philosophy.
However, there are many troublesome aspects to Gift. For example, Gift can be very troublesome and can corrode people. As the author himself draws on the relationship between Kishida Hideo and his mother and child, There is a place where the so-called "toxic parent" problem distilled the bad side of Gift. I felt that an attitude that grasps the ambiguity of Gift is more desirable. Giving and altruism serve as mirrors that reflect "me". Behaving selfishly under the guise of altruism, and exchanging under the guise of giving (carrying the words "it's for you?") becomes a curse.
That's why, when a sense of altruism arises within oneself, it is necessary to strategically add cuteness, humor, and freshness. https://t.co/uPWSLFTEA1 When you think about it, "strategic cuteness, humor, and freshness" is a contradictory description. If it smells of strategy, they become calculated, cold, and unpleasant. Only after diligent training can cuteness, humor, and freshness take root. That's why these three are descriptions of the person's "way of life" itself.