bother
https://gyazo.com/d2f6d873ebf93bd743f718aa82bafd03
source: bother f is for family GIF by NETFLIX - Find & Share on GIPHY
/icons/point.icon 乱す、困らせる
trouble, bother: いずれも人を困らせることをいう
trouble: 悩み事などが人の気をもませること
bother: troubleほどではないが, 多少迷惑になることをさす
disturb, interrupt: いずれも人の活動中に邪魔をすることをいう
disturb: 平穏を乱す場合
interrupt: 会話などを中断する場合に好まれる
〘話〙 ではいずれも相手への迷惑を謝ったり, 何かを依頼する際に用いられるが, botherが最も一般的
verb
1. no object, with negative take the trouble to do something:
〖通例否定文で〗〈人が〉わざわざ «…» する «to do, doing» , ⦅英⦆ «about doing» ; «…に» 手をわずらわす «with» , ⦅英⦆ «about»
e.g. scientists rarely bother with such niceties
e.g. with infinitive : the driver didn't bother to ask why
e.g. nobody bothered locking the doors.
2. (of a circumstance or event) worry, disturb, or upset (someone):
〈人・物・事が〉〈人〉を悩ませる, 困らせる;〖it ~s A to do〗 A〈人〉が…することを苦にする
e.g. secrecy is an issue that bothers journalists
〖it ~s A that節/when節〗 A〈人〉が…ということで[…するときに]困る
e.g. with object and clause : it bothered me that I hadn't done anything.
no object, usually with negative feel concern about or interest in:
〈人が〉 «…について» くよくよ悩む, 心配する, 苦にする «about, with»
e.g. don't bother about me—I'll find my own way home
e.g. he wasn't to bother himself with day-to-day things
e.g. (as adjective bothered) : I'm not particularly bothered about how I look.
trouble or annoy (someone) by interrupting or causing inconvenience:
«…のことで» 〈人が〉(話しかけなどして)〈人〉をじゃまする «with, about» ; «…してくれと» 〈人〉にうるさくせがむ, 面倒をかける «to do»
e.g. she didn't feel she could bother Mike with the problem.
noun
effort, worry, or difficulty:
⦅主に英⦆ (少しの間の) «…についての» 面倒, 骨折り(trouble) «with» ; 騒ぎ
e.g. he saved me the bother of having to come up with a speech
e.g. it may seem like too much bother to cook just for yourself.
(a bother) a person or thing that causes annoyance or difficulty:
⦅英⦆ ; 〖a ~〗 やっかいな人[物], 悩みの種
e.g. I hope she hasn't been a bother.
PHRASES
can't be bothered (to do something)
be unwilling to make the effort to do something:
e.g. they couldn't be bothered to look it up.
hot and bothered
in a state of anxiety or physical discomfort.
ORIGIN
late 17th century (as a noun in the dialect sense ‘noise, chatter’): of Anglo-Irish origin; probably related to Irish bodhaire ‘noise’, bodhraim ‘deafen, annoy’. The verb (originally dialect) meant ‘confuse with noise’ in the early 18th century.