About Life Strategies 2023-09-16 - NISHIO Hirokazu's Scrapbox (Auto-translated from Japanese)

About Life Strategies 2023-09-16

As for number two, "幸せの形は人それぞれだから別に他人がどうでもいいんじゃない？」という気持ち/villagepump/nishio.icon

Happiness comes in different forms. Don't let other people's words fool you.

/villagepump/nishio.iconI feel like I want to hear about the happiness of Mr./villagepump/inajob.icon

Happiness = not being prevented from doing what you want to do. かなー/villagepump/nishio.icon

The second Post figure shows that "happiness 」の中に「 being worth doing 」とは別に「 pleasure 」の箱があるのですが、ここはどうでしょう？/villagepump/inajob.icon

desire for approval 以外の快楽にあまり興味がなく、その「承認欲求」も「多くの人に注目されたい」というタイプではないため比較的簡単に充足されてる感じ/villagepump/nishio.icon

Pleasing the masses is evil.

So I feel like I've never been too aware of it because I haven't felt "hunger".

(*1) and others /villagepump/inajob.icon also forced to expand their desire for approval and made it that way.

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In my case, "pleasure" seems to be mostly a need for approval.

Let's say we include things like the joy of accomplishment in the desire for approval.

I'm happy when I can test a hypothesis I had in mind, even if someone doesn't praise me for it.

In a sense approval from the world?

But I think the "pleasure" part of this diagram could still use more resolution or a different structure that fits better./villagepump/inajob.icon

「世界からの承認欲求」とか「世界支配欲求」とか「自分の有能さの検証」とか、色々な側面はありそうだけど、この図は割と偏ってそう/villagepump/nishio.icon

So you felt like, "Happiness comes in different forms..."

I'm inclined to disagree with this figure too much.

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